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New paintings up finally

over on the painting blog. yayz.

Blatant, honest, not so random ramblings.

Part 1: On relationships.

I am now a firm believer in “with age, comes wisdom.” In my case anyway. I’ve learned a lot about myself and about relationships very recently. Had I known all this when I was 18, I would have been the smartest, happiest kid in the world. 

Okay so here’s my take on relationships. This can include anything from friends to marriage. Honesty is the most important thing. I spent my life keeping my feelings to myself so as to not hurt anyones feelings and to make everyone happy. All that did was make me miserable. I’ve since learned to be very honest and say what I need to.

Now I’m not saying I go around calling people out and calling them bitches or whatever. Sometimes you do have to hold your tongue, but if something is bothering me, you can believe I’m going to tell you. Now you can say “I don’t want to hurt anyones feelings. I don’t want to lose friends.” Sure I get that, but sometimes feelings need to get hurt to change a situation. Or to make someone think about how they are acting or treating you for instance. If your friends can’t respect your opinion, you might not want them as friends. 

mmmmm

Sitting in a hot bubble bath, watching the fringe of pine needles on the snow covered trees, rustle in the light wind. Wondering if the sun will break through the gloomy clouds or if it will start to snow at any moment.

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